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But what makes a French kiss from good to great? It doesn’t matter whether you’re a first-time kisser or a makeout expert. A soft, smooth, and slightly moist mouth is ideal for kissing. Before you move in, you should make sure your lips aren’t chapped or dry so your partner isn’t distracted or put off by the state of your lips. Swipe some over your lips and press them together. If you’re a girl and you have flavored chapstick, all the better!
The only caveat is that you should apply lip balm or gloss an hour or more before you kiss, so your kissing partner feels your soft lips, not the thick layer of gloss over them. You should notice your lips starting to smooth out within 20 to 30 minutes. If you’re really in a pinch and have no time to spare, quickly run your tongue over your lips and press them together. This should moisten them slightly without making them slobbery or slick.
You can even lick your lips a bit subtly while making eye contact with your kissing partner. You never want to have bad breath when you are about to kiss someone, whether the kiss is a French kiss or not. Because your mouth will be open in a French kiss, fresh breath is especially important. If you know you are about to kiss someone, take a second to brush your teeth or at least rinse out your mouth with water.
Always have breath mints or mint-flavored gum with you if you think there is a chance you might kiss someone while you are out. If you want to be subtle, you can quickly suck on a breath mint or chew gum for a minute in the bathroom, so you don’t make it too obvious that you’re ready to kiss. Avoid foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue, particularly garlic, coffee, onions, milk, and corn. If you’re on a dinner date before the big kiss, try to eat strategically. A good kiss—especially a first kiss or first French kiss—is the culmination of building tension and growing intimacy.
Choose your moment right to make sure you and your partner are both in a mindset to really lose yourselves in the kiss. The other person keeps dropping hints, like locking eyes and looking at your lips, or standing or sitting progressively closer to you. Regardless of your partner’s gender, their body language should give you a clue about whether now is the right time to make your move. You’re ending a date that went really well. In the car or on the porch are both good semi-private locations for a goodnight kiss. If you feel overwhelmingly compelled to kiss someone, don’t be too afraid to just go for it.
Just be prepared for an awkward or even troubling situation if you discover your intended didn’t feel the same way. If you aren’t sure whether the other person is feeling it, bring up the topic. Gaze deeply into the other person’s eyes. If you want to make your intentions extra clear, slowly move your gaze to their lips, then back up to the eyes. You can even make intense eye contact, break it for a few seconds, and then look back at the person. This is a way of showing the person you want to kiss that you’re pleasantly overwhelmed at the sight of them. Girls can even look at a guy, look down, and then look up through their lashes to be extra flirtatious.